have gone to和have been to的区别如下：
1、have gone to，第三人称时用 has gone to
have gone to+地点意为 ”某人去了某地,现在还没有回来,可能在去的途中或已经到了目的.地”
【例】He has gone to Shanghai. 他到上海去了(言下之意是他现在不在这里，可能是在去上海的路上，也可能已经在上海了)
(He is on the way to shanghai./ He is in shanghai now.)
2、have been to，第三人称时用has been to
have been to+地点意为 ”某人曾经去过某地,此时已回来”
【例】The old American man has been to China three times. 这位美国老人到过中国三次.
另： have been in
have been in+地点意为 ”在某地待了多久”,后面加一段表示时间的状语.如:
He has been in China for ten years. 他在中国住了十年了.